In February 2024, I had an unplanned exit. I didn’t panic—I executed. This is the financial blueprint I built while I still had a job: HELOC in first lien position, whole life insurance as a personal bank, Roth IRA backstop, and a 3-card cash flow system. But none of it would’ve worked without the mental fitness foundation I’d built first. Here’s everything I wish someone had shared with me—and how I now help others build the same inner game.
What Happens If Your 9-to-5 Ditches You?
A Financial Preparedness Blueprint
There’s a lot of talk about ditching your 9-to-5.
But what happens if your 9-to-5 ditches you?
What would you do? What would be your first move? Who would be your first call?
In February 2024, I had my last exit. It wasn’t the exit I wanted. It was unplanned. Not unexpected. I wasn’t completely blindsided. I could read the tea leaves.
But this isn’t about reading tea leaves. This is about being prepared when the cup spills.
The Inner Work Came First
Here’s what most people skip when talking about financial preparedness:
The strategies I’m about to share? They only worked because I’d already done the mental fitness work.
When I got the news, I didn’t spiral. I didn’t panic. I didn’t make desperate moves that would’ve cost me later.
I stayed calm. Clear. Present.
Three years earlier, that same news wrecked me. I was reactive, overwhelmed, making decisions from fear instead of clarity. This time it was different.
The difference?
I’d spent years upgrading my mental operating system. Learning to spot my internal self-sabotaging tendencies: judgment, controlling, hyper-achiever stickler — before they hijacked my response.
Same trigger. Different response.
Same pressure. Different capacity.
Same news. Different me.
Mental fitness didn’t make the situation disappear. But it gave me the bandwidth to execute the plan I’d already built.
This is exactly what I help people build now. Their inner game. The mental operating system that lets you respond instead of react—whether it’s a job loss, a tough quarter, or life throwing you a curveball. The financial tools matter. But without the mental fitness foundation, most people can’t use them when it counts.
Now let me walk you through the plan.
A Quick Disclaimer
I’m not a financial planner or advisor. If you don’t have one, that’s your first signal you should get one. You can probably find a great one in your network—and maybe a few will comment on this post.
What I’m sharing is my personal blueprint for financial preparedness. Not advice. Your situation is unique. Always consult a professional.
That said, my startup is well-financed. Bootstrapped, if you will, and backed by some major names: Fidelity, Microsoft, Apple, MassMutual, Allianz, Mastercard, Visa, and more.
This isn’t a humble brag. It’s proof the math works.
The Financial Preparedness Blueprint
1. HELOC in First Lien Position
I don’t have a traditional mortgage. My home is financed using a HELOC in first lien position.
You can Google it. You can ask ChatGPT. It’s not a house hack—it’s a math formula.
Here’s why it matters for job loss preparation: If your income is lumpy, if you’re commission-only, if you’re in sales or running a business—this can smooth out the cash flow gaps.
When February 2024 hit, I didn’t have to scramble. The HELOC was already there. Flexible. Available. No panic.
If you can’t do a HELOC in first lien position, you can use a traditional HELOC or a personal line of credit. The point is: establish the line before you need it.
Don’t wait until you’re desperate. Banks don’t lend to those who are under or unemployed.
2. Whole Life Insurance: Bank on Yourself
Years ago, I learned about a principle called “Bank on Yourself.” If you don’t know it, look it up.
I have two whole life insurance policies that build cash value. You can borrow against these policies at low interest rates. The money you’ve invested stays in your account earning interest while you put that same money to work elsewhere.
Yes, you pay it back. And if you die, the principal and interest are deducted from the payout. But while you’re alive? It’s your personal bank.
Need to replace a car? Bank on yourself.
Emergency expense? Bank on yourself.
Bridge a gap between gigs? Bank on yourself.
At current interest rates, borrowing against my policy is often cheaper than my credit union.
Get the policy while you’re young and healthy. It compounds over time. It’s a financial safety net when—not if—you need it.
3. The 3-Card Cash Flow System
We use three credit cards.
Card 1: All family and household expenses. We charge everything we can to this card. We use the 30-day float to smooth cash flow, then pay the balance in full from the HELOC when due.
Card 2: My business expenses.
Card 3: My wife’s business expenses.
Keeps things clean. Keeps things separate. Keeps the cash flowing.
4. Roth IRA as Emergency Backstop
The third line of defense: the Roth IRA.
This is after-tax money. You already paid taxes on it. So if you have to dip into contributions, there are no tax penalties.
In a true dire emergency, you can also sell stocks. Yes, you’ll pay taxes on gains. But you’ll have access to cash. Or you can use your securities as collateral to borrow against.
The Roth sits there quietly. Hopefully you never touch it. But knowing it’s there? That’s peace of mind during any career transition.
Why I’m Sharing This
Because no one shared it with me.
I learned about each of these financial preparedness strategies on my own. Reading. Researching. Testing. Implementing. Tweaking.
And when February 2024 came, I wasn’t scrambling. I wasn’t panicking. I wasn’t making desperate calls.
I was executing.
Build Your Financial Safety Net Now
Here’s what I need you to understand:
Do NOT wait.
Do this NOW. While you have a job. While you have income. While you have options.
If you own a home, get a HELOC and/or a personal line of credit. Don’t wait.
If you can refi your mortgage into an all-in-one loan, run the numbers. Don’t be scared by the interest rates—the math is different than a traditional mortgage.
Get a whole life policy. Not term. Term is fine for what it is—a low-cost safety net if you kick the bucket when you have little ones. But whole life builds cash value. It compounds. It becomes your personal bank.
Get some form of final expense policy. We’re all going to die. Don’t leave your family with a bag of grief and no money to bury you.
Always put money away. Not under the mattress—in the market. Money is a tool. Make sure your money has a job. That job is to make you more money.
And Do the Inner Work
The financial infrastructure only works if you have the mental bandwidth to use it.
When the news hits—and it will hit, eventually, for all of us—you need to be able to respond, not react.
That’s the mental fitness piece. That’s the inner game.
I’ve been coaching founders, leaders, and high-achievers on exactly this. Building the mental operating system that lets you stay calm when everything’s falling apart. Spotting the saboteurs before they take over. Creating space between stimulus and response.
Because when your 9-to-5 ditches you, the difference between panic and execution isn’t luck. It’s preparation—mental and financial.
Build the systems. Build the safety nets. Build the mindset.
Then you’re not scrambling. You’re executing.
Over to You
I know this isn’t my typical content. But some of you have asked privately how I’ve maintained things while building and growing the business. These are some of my strategies.
This is not an exhaustive list. And I’d love to learn from you.
What’s your approach and strategy?
What funds did you use to start your business?
If you found yourself out of a job tomorrow, do you have the resources?
And if you want to talk about the inner game piece—the mental fitness work that made all of this possible—I’m always up for that conversation.
Drop your thoughts below. 👇
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