Relationship SOS™ FAQs
Simple answers about how Relationship SOS™
works, who it helps, and what happens next.
What is Relationship SOS™?
Relationship SOS™ is a simple way to work through one relationship that feels heavy, stuck, or costly.
It may be with a client, boss, teammate, partner, family member, co-parent, friend, or yourself.
We slow it down, look at what is really going on, name the pattern, and find your next best move.
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Who is Relationship SOS™ for?
Relationship SOS™ is for founders, leaders, sellers, parents, co-parents, and high achievers who have one relationship taking up too much space.
You may still be doing your job. You may still be showing up. You may still be holding it together. But inside, that relationship is costing you focus, energy, trust, sleep, confidence, or results. That is where we start.
Is Relationship SOS™ therapy?
No. Relationship SOS™ is not therapy. Therapy has its place. This is different.
Relationship SOS™ is a focused conversation to help you see one relationship more clearly and decide what to do next. We look at the pattern, the cost, what you can control, and your next best move.
What kind of relationships can
Relationship SOS™ help with?
Relationship SOS™ can help with work relationships and personal relationships.
That may include:
a client
a boss
a teammate
a direct report
a business partner
a spouse or partner
a family member
a co-parent
a friend
yourself
The relationship does not need to be broken.
It just needs to be costing you more than it should.
What happens in a Relationship SOS™ session?
In a Relationship SOS™ session, we start with one relationship.
Then we look at:
what is happening
what you are carrying
what keeps repeating
what it is costing you
what you can control
what your next best move could be
The goal is not to blame anyone. The goal is clarity.
How much does Relationship SOS™ cost?
There are two simple ways to start.
The 25-minute Relationship Clarity Call is your first step if you want to talk through one relationship and get clear on what may help.
The 90-minute Relationship SOS™ Deep Dive is $495 and gives us more time to sort it out and build your next best move plan.
Start with the option that fits where you are.
What is the difference between
the 25-minute call and the 90-minute deep dive?
The 25-minute call is free and best for fast clarity. It helps you name what is going on and decide the next best step.
The 90-minute deep dive is paid and best when the relationship feels more costly, complex, or urgent. It gives us time to slow down, sort it out, and build a clearer plan.
Start with one relationship
Answer 3 quick questions, then choose a time to talk.
What questions will I answer before booking?
You will answer 3 quick questions:
What relationship feels hard or heavy right now?
What is it costing you most?
What would feel useful after we talk?
These questions help us start with clarity.
No long intake form. No overthinking required.
What happens in the 25-minute
Relationship Clarity Call?
The 25-minute Relationship Clarity Call is a simple first step.
You bring one relationship that feels heavy or hard. We look at what is going on, what it may be costing you, and what your next best move could be. It is best if you want fast clarity and a low-pressure place to start.
What happens in the 90-minute
Relationship SOS™ Deep Dive?
The 90-minute Relationship SOS™ Deep Dive is a focused private session for one relationship that needs more time, care, and attention.
We slow the situation down. We sort through the noise. We name the pattern. Then we build your next best move plan. You leave with more clarity and a simple plan you can act on.
What do I get from the 90-minute deep dive?
You leave the 90-minute deep dive with a clearer view of the relationship and a next best move plan.
That may include:
the pattern you are stuck in
what the relationship is costing you
what you can control
what conversation may need to happen
what boundary or ask may be needed
your next 1–3 steps
Simple. Honest. Effective.
Can one session really help
with a difficult relationship?
Yes, one session can help you see the relationship more clearly.
It may not solve everything. But it can help you stop spinning, name the pattern, and choose your next best move.
Sometimes that is the shift you need most.
What if I need more than one session?
That is okay. Most do. Because Some relationships need more time and support. If that happens, we can talk about the next best step after your first call or deep dive. No pressure. No rush.
What if I am the problem?
You may be part of the pattern. They may be too. Most relationship problems are not about one bad person. They are often about a pattern that keeps repeating. We are not here to blame anyone. We are here to see what is happening more clearly.
What if the other person is the problem?
They may be part of the problem. But we will still start with what you can see, choose, control, and change. You cannot control another person. You can control how you prepare, respond, ask, listen, lead, set boundaries, and take the next step. That is where your power is.
What if I do not know what to say?
That is very normal. A lot of people come in knowing something feels off, but not knowing how to explain it. You do not need the perfect words. Bring the situation. We’ll slow it down and sort it out together.
What if I am avoiding a hard conversation?
That is one of the best reasons to use Relationship SOS™.
Hard conversations can feel bigger when they stay in your head. We can look at what needs to be said, what needs to be avoided, and how to enter the conversation with more calm and clarity. The goal is not to win the conversation. The goal is to show up well.
What if trust has been damaged?
If trust has been damaged, we start there. We look at what happened, what changed, what still feels unclear, and what may need to be repaired. Sometimes trust can be rebuilt. Sometimes the next best move is a clear boundary. Either way, clarity comes first.
What if the relationship is personal, not professional?
That is welcome. Relationship SOS™ can help with work relationships and personal relationships. Sometimes the personal relationships are the ones costing the most energy. You can bring the relationship that feels heaviest right now.
What if the relationship is professional, not personal?
That works too. Many work problems are really relationship problems.
A client, boss, teammate, employee, buyer, or business partner can drain a lot of focus and energy when trust or clarity is off. We’ll look at the pattern and find your next best move.
Start with one relationship
Answer 3 quick questions, then choose a time to talk.
What if the relationship is with myself?
Now we are getting real. Sometimes the relationship costing you the most is the one you have with yourself. Your expectations. Your pressure. Your self-talk. Your work. Your goals. Your past choices. We can start there too.
Is Relationship SOS™ only for leaders?
No. Relationship SOS™ is helpful for leaders, but it is not only for leaders.
It is for anyone who has one relationship taking up too much space and wants to handle it with more clarity, calm, and care.
Founders, sellers, parents, partners, co-parents, and high achievers can all use this work.
Is Relationship SOS™ for couples?
Relationship SOS™ is not couples therapy. You can, and should, bring a relationship with a spouse, partner, or family member if it is the one costing you the most right now. The focus is on helping you see your side of the pattern more clearly and choose your next best move.
Is Relationship SOS™ for co-parents?
Yes. 💯 Co-parenting can be hard, especially when trust is low or old patterns keep repeating. Relationship SOS™ can help you slow down the situation, name what keeps happening, and decide how to respond with more clarity. The goal is not drama. The goal is a better next move.
Is Relationship SOS™ confidential?
Yes. 💯x♾️. Your conversation is private. You can speak honestly about what is happening, what you are carrying, and what you are unsure about. This is a safe place to sort through one relationship without judgment.
Do I need to prepare before the call?
Not much. Just think about one relationship that feels heavy right now.
You can also answer these 3 quick questions:
What relationship feels heavy?
What is it costing you most?
What would feel useful after we talk?
That is enough to start.
Start with one relationship
Answer 3 quick questions, then choose a time to talk.
What does “start with one relationship” mean?
“Start with one relationship” means we do not try to fix everything at once. We choose the one relationship that feels heaviest right now. Then we slow it down, sort it out, and find your next best move.
One relationship is enough to start.
Why start with one relationship?
Because one relationship can drain a lot. It can affect your focus, energy, sleep, trust, work, confidence, and results. Starting with one relationship keeps the work simple and clear. No giant plan. Just one honest next step.
💡 Bonus Insight 💡
You will learn new skills that will enhance all of your relationships.
What does “next best move” mean?
Your next best move is the next clear action you can take.
It may be a conversation.
It may be a boundary.
It may be a question.
It may be a pause.
It may be a decision.
It may be a new way to respond.
The goal is to leave with clarity you can use.
What does “better relationships create better results” mean?
It means relationships affect almost everything. When trust is low, work gets harder. When clarity is missing, energy gets drained. When the relationship improves, decisions get easier, focus comes back, and results get lighter.
Not perfect relationships. Better ones.
What makes Relationship SOS™ different?
Relationship SOS™ is simple, focused, and practical. We do not try to fix your whole life. We start with one relationship. Then we look at what is really happening, what pattern keeps repeating, and what your next best move could be.
It is human. It is clear. It is useful.
How is Relationship SOS™ connected to ResultsOS™?
Relationship SOS™ is powered by ResultsOS™.
ResultsOS™ is the simple system I use to help people find patterns, reduce friction, and take the next best step. You do not need to understand the whole system to use Relationship SOS™.
You just need to start with one relationship.
Start with one relationship
Answer 3 quick questions, then choose a time to talk.
Is this coaching?
It can feel like coaching, but the focus is very specific. It’s a guided process and experience. Relationship SOS™ is a focused conversation around one relationship that feels heavy, unclear, or costly. We look at what is happening and what to do next.
The work is simple: see it clearly, sort it honestly, and choose the next step.
Will you tell me what to do?
I may offer direct feedback, but I will not pretend to know your life better than you do. We will look at the situation together. I’ll help you see the pattern, ask better questions, and think through your options. Then we find your next best move.
Will you help me write what to say?
Honestly, it’s a maybe. Because it depends on what you need and what is useful to you and the situation. If a hard conversation is needed, we can work through what to say, what not to say, and how to say it with more clarity and care.
The goal is not a perfect script. The goal is a better conversation.
What if I am not ready to talk yet?
That is okay. You can start by reading the Relationship SOS™ page and thinking about one question:
What relationship is costing me the most right now?
When you are ready, start with one relationship.
Start with one relationship
Answer 3 quick questions, then choose a time to talk.
How do I know which option to choose?
Choose the 25-minute Relationship Clarity Call if you want a simple first step.
Choose the 90-minute Relationship SOS™ Deep Dive if the relationship feels urgent, complex, or costly.
Either way, start with one relationship.
What happens after I book?
When you book, you will answer 3 quick questions. Then we meet at the time you choose. You bring one relationship. We’ll slow it down, sort it out, and find your next best move.
Can I book the 90-minute deep dive without doing the 25-minute call first?
Yes. If you already know you want more time and support, you can book the 90-minute Relationship SOS™ Deep Dive. The 25-minute call is there if you want a smaller first step.
Choose what fits where you are.
What if I am not sure this is the right fit?
Start with the 25-minute Relationship Clarity Call.
It is a simple way to talk through what is going on and see if Relationship SOS™ can help.
No pressure. No big commitment. Just one conversation.
What if my situation is messy?
Messy is normal. Most real relationships are not clean or simple at first. You do not need to organize everything before we talk. Bring the mess. We’ll slow it down and sort through it together.
What if I feel embarrassed to talk about it?
That makes sense. A hard relationship can feel personal, painful, or confusing. You do not need to perform here. You do not need to have the perfect story. You just need to bring the relationship that feels heavy.
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how I was too embarrassed to ask for help with my messy situations.
Can Relationship SOS™ help with workplace conflict?
Yes. Absolutely. Relationship SOS™ can help you think through workplace conflict with a boss, peer, employee, client, buyer, or business partner. We look at what is happening, what is being avoided, what trust may be missing, and what your next best move could be.
Can Relationship SOS™ help with family conflict?
Yes. Family relationships can carry a lot of history. Relationship SOS™ can help you slow down the pattern, see what is yours to own, and decide what to do next. It is not about blame. It is about clarity.
Can Relationship SOS™ help with sales or client relationships?
Yes. And I will let you in on a little sales secret… Relationship SOS™ will unlock more sales opportunities for you. It will help you get stuck deals moving again. You’ll save a ton of time not chasing bad deals. Sales and client relationships can get stuck when trust, timing, clarity, or expectations are off. We can look at the relationship, the pattern, the cost, and the next best move.
Better relationships often create better results.
Can Relationship SOS™ help founders and business partners?
Yes. This is core to what we do… Founder, co-founder, and business partner relationships can carry a lot of pressure. When trust or clarity is off, it can affect the whole business. Relationship SOS™ helps you slow down the pattern and decide what needs to happen next.
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Can Relationship SOS™ help parents?
Yes. Parents often carry hard relationships with children, adult children, spouses, co-parents, or family members. Relationship SOS™ can help you see the pattern more clearly and choose a calmer, more honest next step.
What if I want ongoing support?
If ongoing support makes sense, we can talk about it after your first step. Some people need one conversation. Some people need deeper support. We do not need to decide that today.
Still have questions?
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